Here it is! another Blog of mine! and certainly the last one too(for November only!) Guys, plz help me! I need ideas for my upcoming blogs in December! Plz mail your suggestions to mahekbajaj03@gmail.com thanks again! Love everyone! P.S: this is not my piece of writing I have taken this from-- http://www.scholaradvisor.com/essay-examples/argumentative-essay-wearing-school-uniform-makes-learners-proud/ -- I have not changed anything, so it belongs only to this website..So,YUP! here you goooo...!

Argumentative Essay: Wearing School Uniform Makes Learners Proud

The question of uniform has come up a lot. In Britain the students have to wear uniforms, with only the smallest schools being exempt. In America the rules are a little different, and most institutions may choose whether their students wear a uniform. I intend to prove that wearing a uniform makes a schoolchild proud to be part of the school and part of the team.

Children need to feel as if they belong to the school

It has been proven that students who see themselves as the equal of their teachers do not do as well at school. Having every child wear a uniform helps to show the children who the teacher is in a very subconscious and powerful way. It also helps to make everybody part of the school. Without uniforms the unpopular or distant children will dress radically in order to make a statement and clearly differentiate themselves from their fellow classmates. This leads to further alienation and the feeling that they do not belong. Uniforms solve this problem by making everyone of equal status.

It helps make children all equal

Children are just as likely to set up a class system as any micro culture. One method of differentiating has always been physical prowess. Another is attractiveness and a “bad” or rebellious attitude. The financial means of their parents is another, and it is far easier to spot who has wealthy parents and who does not by the types of clothing worn at school. Wearing uniforms is going to make this sort of differentiation and discrimination a lot harder.

Uniforms sap a child’s creativity

This is the argument that children are less creative if they are not allowed to express themselves, but this is not the case. People have to wear a uniform in the working world, including in the creative sector, and they are not affected by their dress style or the fact they look like the rest of the team.

Uniforms restrict the children’s free will

This is the argument that dressing all the children the same is setting them up to be robotically minded and easily manipulated in the future. However, this argument fails to take into account that giving children too much free will at a young age is a bad thing. Children are not yet mature enough to make correct and well balanced decisions. They need structure and order in their lives until they become free thinking, lateral thinking, well rounded and well adjusted adults.

Conclusion

Wearing a school uniform makes children proud to be part of their school because it curbs alienation, helps to form class/school unity and differentiates between the students and teachers. It helps to give children the structure they need, whilst not removing any creativity from them.

How can YOU be a FREE SOUL?...The last Piece of the Month..

How Can You Be A Free Soul..?

Once again, Hello!Welcome to my blog..FREE SOUL..deciding a name and keeping it wasn't easy..it had to be meaningful.Something that can be connected to everyone out there..So here it is, FrEe SoUl!! So, This blog-this writing piece-is very special.Its the last one for the upcoming 1 Month.So Yeah, You guessed it right! I will do my next HOW CAN YOU BE A FREE SOUL on 15-12-15 (That's My fathers birthday!) But  i have decided to have these only twice a Month, or else it gets too much..Anyways, Lets start with this last one..!Here are some steps(7) to make you understand how to be one! 

1

Understand what it means to be free. First of all understand the true meaning behind it. Whenever we speak of something like ''free-soul'' the only image that comes to mind ( at least in my mind) is an angel which is free, or the birds flying, or whatever you can imagine.In high school, you might think that being a free soul means, that punked out guy, who tells stories about where he has visited or what new and expensive things he bought or else the quiet, dorky girl who takes her book and sits in the library without anyone actually noticing her.It can be either ways. 

2

Pursue your passions. Being free-soul means having the courage to not only follow your dreams, but also take the time to figure out what they really are – which is arguably much more difficult. Maybe you’ve given up on getting that master’s in Native American studies because you’re afraid it isn’t practical. Maybe you play a wicked diddley bow but don’t think you’ll ever meet the right folk fusion band. Maybe you’ve been raised by former hippies who have never understood your burning desire to go into real estate. Take the time to unearth a secret passion that maybe you didn’t even know you had – and then take the plunge

3

Let go of whatever is holding you back. This entails a lot more than thinking about all the ways that The Man is keeping you down. If a bad experience has left your faith in people broken, rebuild your strength until you’re able to get close to people again. If a strict upbringing has left you with little sense of who you are, work on stripping away these artificial layers to find what’s underneath. And of course, don’t forget to think about the ways that you hold yourself back. Maybe you have a tendency to play the victim and revel in your own misfortunes. Maybe you’re a hopeless romantic who keeps making the same relationship mistake over and over. Maybe you’re afraid of asking for help because everyone expects you to be strong all the time. Only when you’re brutally honest about the barriers in front of you can you find solutions for moving past them.

4 Live in the moment. It’s easy to spend so much time in your own head that you never actually connect with the things around you. Maybe you’re playing out fantasies, arguments, or zombie apocalypse scenarios in your head when you’re supposed to be having a conversation. Maybe you’re trying so hard to imagine how you look to the people walking past you on the street that you don’t even notice what a gloriously sunny day it is. Engage with the people, places, and things around you on a deeper level and you’ll find that your reactions to them will suddenly become a lot more authentic.

5

Honor other people’s freedom. Free-spiritedness isn’t about promising one thing and doing another, getting whatever you want without paying your dues, showing up to every date a half hour late, or leaving a trail of broken hearts behind you. Remember that your freedom ends where everyone else’s begins.

So these are the simple 5 steps, to make you a free soul!!Thanks everyone for the support. I will not be active on any of the social medias till 23rd. Thanks again!Special thanks to WIKI HOW! Few of the words in here have been taken from http://www.wikihow.com/Be-a-Free-Spirit thanks again!

Xoxo,

Mahek

Meet you guys on 23rd! 

How can YOU be a FREE SOUL?...By doing what you see RELEVANCE in

How can YOU be a FREE SOUL?

I ask this question every time...or rather, I state that every time..

''People'' might think that I am writing these stuff for inspiration and all..But is it ALL true? I guess, not.. I not only do  this to INSPIRE people..but to MOTIVATE them..now, ''people'' might say that INSPIRE and MOTIVATE are the same..aren't they? yeah, that is true, but a little..Inspire and motivate are when you need to encourage someone to do something..both are to ENCOURAGE..But INSPIRE is when you do something and then you dont need to tell people to do that..they will do it when the see strong relevance...if they dont see the relevance, they are the ''people''. Motivate, when saying something to encourage or lift up someone..now you see the main difference?

anyways, we NEED to get off the previous track now..

So, as my topic for today is, DOING WHAT YOU SEE RELEVANCE IN, is again connected to the LONG LECTURE I just gave about stuff and the ''people'' 

Doing what you love and in what YOU see relevance..I may say to my friend to DO something, like eating a fish, even if she's a vegetarian. Some ''people'' likely will will do as said, because they get CAUGHT UP in that bond, that they can't differ whats right and whats wrong. but the other ''people'' will first see the relevance, then take a choice and then move further with their decision. 

So there are 3 easy steps to get the right decision and afterwards, not regretting the decision.

1) See the relevance. What can you pick up strongly? is that something against something dear to you?

2) Take a choice according to your decision, would you want to do that or not?

3) then do the final part/touching;proceeding with your MAIN idea.

And By the way, 

TO ALL INDIANS, A VERY HAPPY DIWALI AND A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR!

Xoxo,

Mahek 

How can YOU be a FREE SOUL?....A bird

 Today, I woke up at 7:15 (too early for me to wake up in holidays/vacations!) So...Today I went to riverfront! By the way guys..I have applied MEHENDI!! Arabic one B) 

So yeah...lets just talk about the ''main'' topic..

So today.. was a Sunday..And I was expecting really HIGH!..when I went to Riverfront in the morning, I was searching for my Dad.I was getting tired because I had walked GREAT distance..approx. 4,5 Km. So I was really tired!
I sat down on the bench and was just wondering how dirty our lake Sabarmati is when we look at it:( I was really sad:( Then my mom was there, besides me..She was narrating an incident she experienced when she was at riverfront with her best friend..so, as the story begins, My mom was facing the way where people walk and her friend was looking at the lake,bridge and the birds around..She suddenly spotted some guy trying to suicide..She was scared, she told my mom, my mom saw it and then that boy (he was young, around 10th grade) he was holding a pipe and swinging, as if for his enjoyment, then in a splash of second, he jumped..my mom's friend got worried and called up the police/cops, the firemen, the ambulance and who ever she could.. the suicide was around 7:45 in the night and everyone came at 8:15 to rescue that young lad..they didnt find him, but after 2 days, the body was floating and the police were able to identify that boy and call up his family..

With these thoughts running in my mind, I was SHOCKED to hear why would a young person suicide? peer pressure? parent pressure? or because of his grades? Then I was looking at the same spot and visualizing that boy suicide and thinking what would be the reason for him to suicide? then suddenly, a bird came, and was flying freely, I was into deep thoughts and was all into negative part, when a bird came and took me into the positive part..I was thinking what would have happened if that depressed boy would be a free bird or a chirpy one..Things come in our life and make our life miserable..it can be people too..But its OUR choice, how we, react to that situation or a better way, how we RESPOND to that situation..FEAR has 2 meanings: 
Fear                                  Face
Everything        or         Everything 
And                                   And

Run                                   Rise    

The choice was still his..I was just looking at that bird..How free it was..No cage or restrictions to bind it and make it feel insecure..

The choice is YOURS to be that boy or the bird..More overly, A FrEe SoUl..!

*P.S: for those who dont know what Riverfront is, its a park which is famous all around India..The picture is below--> or better ways search for ' Riverfront Park, Ahmedabad'

How can YOU be a FREE SOUL? Childhood...

Every 2 months(from now), I am going to write, how YOU can be a FREE SOUL! or else how were YOU a FREE SOUL before!:( This time I've chosen childhood..Being a child feels so free,doing nothing but still everything! Here's how I feel about when I was/am a FrEe SoUl!!


Sometimes, it feels like just to rewind everything and be a small child again!..Doing whatever you like!no ''Judgmental'' people around you-even if there are, they don't judge what you do- mostly being a FREE SOUL!

How I wish I could be six or seven or eight years old, I miss my childhood dearly. Those are the days where one can be themselves no matter what people think about you, mostly they wouldn’t bother you much as we do not fall into their radar. 

Still Lovin it!

You know what I miss most about being a kid? Laughing at the top of my lungs, running without any inhibitions, falling without embarrassment, eating anything I wanted, having meals ready on the table without me having to think about it, digging grass and hunting for bugs and worms, collecting marbles and shells by the shore, getting pampered when I fell sick, mom's fingers running through my hair to put me to sleep, waking up excited about a new day, exploring just about anything, having fights for many petty things and not worrying about wearing a white tee-shirt and getting soaked, fighting over a toy, chair, TV (the only thing that has not changed is the fight for the TV, opponent now is my brother) and then getting bored of it and sharing cookies, loving going to pre-school (that am not sure about, because I used to detest going) using my imagination, thinking love was a funny word more than ‘funny’ something which can’t be uttered as it is supposed to be sinful and not being afraid of anything in life!...

How I miss that Period of my life! this always flashes into my mind and gets a smile on my face!:) wish that just comes again!..