(Hellos to my dearest followers! today I will be sharing about one of my MAJOR ''problems''-inspiration from tallandcurly.com -- here u go--)
I am Tall… Now what?!
Imagine walking in a street, people looking up and gazing at you. And suddenly! There is one of your SEPRATED schoolmate and she asks weird question and states annoying statements like
-how tall are you?
-what did you eat to be tall like that?
-Are you 18 years?
-do you play basketball? Volleyball?
- (in classes) can you plz move TALL GIRL? i can’t see!
-it must be difficult to find a man your size (what?! i am just 12!!)
And the simple and the CLASSIC one
-let me hide behind you so I get shade
WHAT? I AM TALL? ARE YOU SURE?
Yes. I am tall. No no, Tall is not my name. I have a name; it’s Mahek. I even have a surname with the whole genealogical tree to go with. But it seems like nothing comes before that. Before the fact that I am TALL. It’s my main occupation.
Oh I see. You thought I hadn't noticed. That’s why you apparently told yourself: ''Maybe I should go and tell her, just in case...like in FYI kind of way...''
And there you go: Hey! You’re TALL!!! And then: - how TALL are you? Why wouldn't you ask me that after all? You don’t ask his weight to a big man, you don’t go to someone with a big nose and say ' what a biiiiig nose!' but saying a TALL girl that she’s tall is fine?! Being tall is not a flaw. Believe me. Being tall is being a part of Claudia Schiffers family...and I love her...
I should make a special business-type card. it would feature my surname, my name, my phone number, my address and ,above all, my occupation: TALL, I am a professional Tall girl. And i am GOOD at what I do.
Anywhere I go, I never forget to be a head taller than everyone. By the way, Girls, it’s useless to put your high heels on and compete with me, I never get-out with my extra-long tibias.
I TRIED NOT TO BE TALL...BUT IT DIDN'T WORK
in my family everyone is tall..my mother,my father,aunts and uncles from both sides..If I was to calculate the average size of my family, I would probably get something like 5'11''.
actually, thinking quite again, I am average....compared to my family members ONLY!
Usually, girls like to glean a few inches over here and there. Those who are 4'4'' end up being 4'5'', those who are 5'1'' end up being 5'2'' and sometimes the 4'9 girls even manage to reach the modelling of 5'4'' with their heels.
OK....I can already see some throwing up their hands in horror..''is she kidding me?what is she complaining about?she's tall and she's annoying us with her ''problems''?'' well yess maaaam I ammm!
being tall is beautiful.being tall is elegant.Models are tall. ''Everybody wants to be tall!'' but I am not talking about the girls who are 5'5.5'' (Thats me!) I am talking about US. The REAL tall girls! the GIANTS!the 5'9'' and up! who seem to get vertigo when/if they wear their heels!
KEEP CALM AND BE TALL!
the first thing I would like to say to our shorter female fellows is that we generally feel bigger next to then than they felling shorter.And the fact that God was generous giving us extra inches doesn't mean our biggest concern is to get noticed every where we go.The problem is that we DO get noticed everywhere we go!
To this problem, there are only 2 solutions : either we feel bad about ourselves and we try to hide-and lets be clear about this: the probability to succeed is very low- or we're at ease with ourselves and stand tall and proud, just like you, but a little higher.
Plz stop considering us like threats or tigresses and plz stop looking at us as if we are a ridiculous alien species! most of us will then need our whole life to accept as we are,while many tall girls still don't love themselves and would happily get rid out of couple of inches...not mentioning the fact that unlike us, YOU can shop ANYWHERE.
To the gentlemen: we are not different from other girls. except that some of us have a bigger lack of confidence.Please be kind and don't be shy. Tall girls will be grateful to you!
To everyone: when you meet a tall girl, I bet that 100% of the time you notice that she is tall. is it a reason to mention it? speak of something else, for this too, tall girls will be grateful to you.
To you,the GIANTS, the AMAZONS, who like me can't buy clothes on the web because you fear to get too short sleeves or too short pants, and who you don't dare to wear high heels and who think wearing flat shoes you'll get less noticed, to you all: LOVE YOURSELVES <3
you've probably seen a tall girl wearing high heels before,walking proudly,maybe nonchalantly not caring about what people say and I'm sure you envided her, that tall,beautiful,elegant and above all a FREE girl! well BE that GIRL! your feet on the ground and head held up high :D
Lastly, I hope after reading this Blog, people who used to ask me weird questions and annoying statements would stop! OK I 'm fine with you guys calling me Tall, but not asking me weirdo questions and always telling me to GIVE AWAY few inches, I am what I am!! and no one can CHANGE ME!
BE LIKE A FrEe SoUl!
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XOXO,
Mahek
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